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やさい
初めまして!
元銀座ホステスアラサーやさいです。

初めてブログを読んでくれる方に私がどんな事をしてきたか?
というプロフィールを書いていきたいと思います。




中学生時代

毎日学校に行き、生きにくさは感じつつ
いたって真面目な小学生、中学生時代を過ごしました。

中学後半〜高校生あたりからはじけ出しまして今もなお続いております。

親がお金にとても厳しく、
お小遣いは欲しいものを申請したらくれるというタイプでした。
自分の思うような金額はくれず、
大きい出費の際は『高校生になってアルバイトできるようになったら返してね』
と封筒に借りた額を書き込まれて額が増えるのを見るたびに本当にこの額を返せるのだろうか、、
と中学生ながら心配になっていました。
その額は数十万でしたが中学生の私にとっては大金だなぁ。と思ったことを覚えています。




高校時代

高校に入学すると封筒に書かれた親への借金を返すためにすぐに働き出しました。

放課後と土日は基本バイト。
寝ずに働きながら遊んでの繰り返し。

無事に親への借金を返し終える。
しかし、いろいろな遊びを覚え次第に出費が多くなっていくにつれて
バイトの量も増えるので、ラットレースが終わらない( ;´Д`)

大学へ入学??

大学にも自分のお金で行くという約束のもとに受験し見事合格。
しかし、こんなことを学びたいんじゃない、
勉強する暇があるのなら仕事をしてお金が欲しい!と思いすぐに退学。

フリーター時代突入

私にはちゃんと人様に言えるような職歴はありません。

大学を中退してからは、好きなシフトで働きたかったのと、
週5も朝から満員電車に揺られるのは出勤を挫折すると思い、
正社員にはならず家の近くでアルバイトをしていました。

アルバイトも出勤が11時以降限定。

なぜ水商売を始めたの?

何で水商売を始めたかというと単純に、
旅行したかったのと遊ぶお金が欲しくて始めました。

そして自分を変えたかった。親と同じ価値観のまま大人になりたくなかった。
きっと自分ではない何者かになりたかったのでしょうね(/ _ ; )

親の価値観

・汗水垂らしてお金を稼がなくてはならない

・無料より高いものはない

・貯金して将来の不安に備えなくてはならない

・人に迷惑をかけるな

・人に言えない仕事はするな(水商売含む)

・海外は危ない所だ、飛行機が落ちるかもしれない

・早めに結婚して専業主婦になる

こんな所です。本当にそうなのかな?
と疑問に思う事はあっても否定すると怒り出すので親の前では頷くのみ。
今では心配という名の愛情だってわかるけど、
当時は反抗して家出をし、約10年帰らない日々が続きましたw

売っている服やバッグもアルバイトのお金じゃ満足して買えない。

染めたい髪の色も、
可愛いと思っていたブリーチやアッシュを入れたりエクステを付けるとすごくお金がかかる。

可愛いスカルプネイルもしたい。

利便性の良い場所に一人暮らししたい。

居酒屋に行く時も値段を見てメニューを決めなきゃいけないのも嫌、
好きなものが食べたいし飲みたい。

旅行行けても、予算の関係と休める期間が短いのでアジアしか行けない上に節約した貧乏旅行。

それがいやでいやで(/ _ ; )
こんな状況を変えたい!
やりたい事にかかる出費が収入に見合わない、
なんでこんな長時間働かなくてはならないのだろう?
と思っていた頃でした。

軽い気持ちで始めたのに約10年も働くと思ってなかったなぁ。
大好きな旅行や欲がいい意味でも悪い意味でも私を変えてくれました。

物を買うよりも旅行などの体験、
経験にお金を出した方が記憶にも残るし
自分の価値観を変えていってくれたのでお金を出してよかったな、
と後々強く感じる。

もし自分を変えたかったら、旅行が一番手っ取り早い投資だと思います。
特に若い方には貯金するよりも
ブランド品を買うよりも、旅行に行くことをお勧めします。

現在

水商売を上がりすぐ働くつもりがダラダラとしていたらニート2年目になりましたw

ニートの期間を有効活用し海外に長期行ってみたり、海外キャバクラで働いたり。

今現在は縁があり石垣島に暮らしています。

海のある場所に住むのが長年の夢でしたが、まさか日本国内でこんなに素敵な海がいっぱいあって暮らしやすい島に巡り合うと思っていなかったので石垣島の素晴らしさもブログで伝えていきたいと思います。

時間持ちって本当に贅沢で最高ですよ♪
この2年、完全な余白があったから体験できた事も数え切れないですし、
本当にやりたい事は余白の時間に生まれると思ってます。

という事で引き続きゆるく生きていきます!

 

 

やさい
そんな感じで長くなりましたがやさいのプロフィールでした♫
水商売履歴書も書きましたので、よろしければそちらもどうぞ(*^^*)




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  • 急にすいません!
    アトピーが完治したという
    記事をみてコメントしました!
    ボクもアトピーで日々悩まされてます!
    できればもっと詳しく話をききたいです!

  • 来月、久しぶりに石垣へ♪
    やさいさんまだ住んでるのかなぁ~

    僕も石垣島の海に入った年は
    冬場になったらなる足首のカユイ
    のがないんだよねー 不思議~

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